Skills

Andrew Pudewa, the founder of the Institute for Excellence in Writing (which is awesome, by the way), divides all homeschool subjects into content subjects and skill subjects.  It’s a convenient way to think about the different things you help you children learn.

I have focused most of my attention on content subjects on this blog, such as discussing how to combine history with literature, art history, music history, etc.  Today, though, I thought I would write a little bit about skill subjects.

If you think about it, most of the grammar-stage subjects tend to be more skill subjects with a gradual transition toward more and more content subjects and fewer skill subjects during the logic stage and the rhetoric stage, and for the most part that makes sense.  There are a few skill subjects that most children aren’t ready for until a little later in their education, however.  Here’s a list (you know how I love lists) of skill subjects that, while they have very little to do with a classical education per se, are still important for the children to learn:

1. Handwriting – This one is obvious.  Some people start with cursive, and I think there are some good arguments for that, but we start with print using Handwriting without Tears and then move to their cursive program.  Apparently, most schools have stopped teaching cursive.  For years, I too thought it wasn’t really important.  The main reason I decided to teach the children cursive was so they could read Grandma’s letters, LOL.  For one of my sons, however, it had the added benefit of giving him a fresh start with his previously very messy printing.  I did find that it didn’t really stick until I presented the cursive in the form of a class, complete with dictating using the book.  I chose this program because it’s easy to use and straight forward.  It’s not the Palmer method–just a nice, clean, easy-to-read script.
2. Typing – I think that learning to type quickly and accurately is really essential in today’s world.  After trying a few different computer programs as well as the old-fashioned typewriter books, we settled on a program called Typing Master Platinum.  It combines old-fashioned exercises with some rather entertaining typing games.  The kids start out using it in for 30 minutes a day in 3rd or 4th grade and keep going until they can type 60 words per minute.  It has worked well for us.
3. Repair skills – Another thing that is really important in my opinion is being able to learn some basic carpentry, plumbing, wiring. and basic auto-repair skills.  We are very blessed by the fact that my husband learned all of these and many more skills from his grandfather.  The downside is that he doesn’t have as much time as he would like to pass the skills on.  However, he does when he can.  A really fun way to do this is to build a fort together.  I actually think it’s a good idea for both genders to learn how to do these things.  I don’t know of any way to learn in this case other than by being taught by someone who knows how, and I think like so many other things, skills build on each other such that eventually one is able to figure out how to do things based on what one already knows.
4. Sewing – There’s something wonderfully satisfying about making one’s own clothes.  At the very least, everyone should know how to fix a hem and sew on buttons.
5. Computer skills - I recently read that, while we think of teens today as being very computer savvy, many of them only know how to do the things they always do, but they lack the ability to figure out new things on the computer.  From installing new programs to learning some programming to knowing all the different programs in MS Office and Adobe Creative Suite, these are skills that are both practical and useful for future jobs.
6. Running a household – It’s quite easy to overlook the skills required to run a household when we’re so busy teaching them math and science and literature and history and theology.  I confess that I had so little interest in this as a child that I really didn’t have a clue how to do it when I got married.  It still doesn’t come easily (which is why you never see pictures of my house in this blog ).  I will try (no promises though) to post something soon about some different ways to divide up chores.  The bigger your family, the more essential it is for everyone’s sanity that the children help out.  However, even if you have a small family, it’s just as important for the children that they learn both the responsibility of chores and the knowledge of how to keep house from doing them.  Their future spouses will thank you!
7. Last but certainly not least is the ability to cook.  For the last couple years, we have made one of the chores related to dinner being the “dinner helper.”  That involves things like setting the table, but more importantly, it is a one-on-one lesson on how to cook.  Unfortunately, only one of our 5 children is really enthusiastic about cooking, but my goal is for all of them to at least be able to feed themselves before they leave home.

I don’t know about you, but for us time is always short, and it’s easy to lose track of some of these skills as well as others.  What are some other skills that you think it’s important for your children to learn?

Save Aquinas and More!

I’m posting a day earlier than planned on this, the feast of the glorious Saint Joseph, as St. Teresa of Avila would say.  This is the last day of a campaign to save Aquinas and More Catholic Bookstore.  This beautiful, faithful online store is owned by good friends of ours, Ian and Paula Rutherford and their 10 children.  What I love most of all about their store are two things:

1.  Their “good faith guarantee”–if it isn’t in line with the teachings of the Magisterium of the Church, it isn’t found in their store, so you can go to the site and relax and enjoy, not having to worry about whether a book you’re interested in will be faithful.  It will!

2.  They don’t buy anything made in China.  I just found that out, and it is something we as a family try to do as well, though we don’t always succeed.  I’m quite positive that making that decision has meant financial sacrifice for the Rutherfords, but they are living out their belief (and mine) that we shouldn’t send our dollars to a government that imprisons and tortures Christians and others who speak out against the oppressive communist government there.

They were going to close the business down and then decided to give it one last try if it’s God’s will to keep it open.  They are trying to raise $250K, and this is the last day, so if you read this, please do what you can here: 

http://www.gofundme.com/aquinasangels

If you pledge to support them, the money will only be used if they actually reach the $250K.  As of right now, they’ve only raised $57K, which is pretty huge actually, but not nearly enough.  Pray for sure and help financially if you can.

God bless,

Carla

 

Habemus Papam! –Hip, hip, hurray!

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Just last weekend, I determined that I had neglected this blog long enough.  I planned to post something new each week on Wednesday.  Well, here we are, and I’m keeping my promise, but I’m not blogging about homeschooling today.

Today, I am full of joy over the election of our new pope, Pope Francis I, formerly, Jorge Cardinal Bergoglio.  I had the privilege of sharing the excitement of the crowds at Saint Peter’s Square via the internet and listening to the first address of our new pope, Pope Francis, along with my children who got to see it live because they’re homeschooled (okay–I did talk about homeschooling).

I never heard of him before today.  Here is what I have learned today and why, as always, I am so confident that the Holy Spirit is guiding the Church:

1. He is from Argentina, the son of an Italian immigrant father who was a railroad worker, and one of 5 children–humble beginnings, but speaks Italian very well.
2. He has taught literature, psychology, and philosophy–a Renaissance man.
3. He is a Jesuit who sought to moderate the Marxist leanings of his fellow Jesuits.
4. As bishop of Buenos Aires, he has forgone the bishop’s residence in favor of a small apartment and the limo and chauffeur in favor of using public transportation–like the saint whose name he took as pope, he is in love with Lady Poverty.
5. He has in fact preached the value of simplicity and love for the poor with his life.
6. He has spoken publicly to defend life and marriage.
7. He began his papacy with prayer for his wonderful predecessor and with great humility asked everyone present to pray for him in silence.  He bowed while the whole crowd was really silent (and hopefully praying).
8. There is a peacefulness and gentleness about him that showed even in his first appearance as our new holy father.
9. He is from a third-world country, cares for the poor, and lives a life of simplicity, all of which will make him a little harder for the secular media to ignore, both because they can’t accuse him of being part of the “good-old-boy club” (not that I think that would be a serious accusation in any case) and because they can’t accuse him of ignoring the needs of the poor when he speaks of the horror of abortion, euthanasia, and the many sins that have become accepted as normal in our society.
10. He has spoken with fervor God’s mercy and love.  He lambasted priests in his diocese for refusing to baptize children born out of wedlock.  He went to an AIDS hospice and kissed and washed the feet of those suffering there.
11. He is known to be a man of prayer.  First and foremost, we need a man of prayer to lead us ever closer to Christ in these turbulent times.
12. The more I read, the more he reminds me of the saintly bishop in Victor Hugo’s novel, Les Miserables.  A pope like him could bring many back to the Church.

Advice to New Homeschoolers–Relax!

When we lived in Michigan, I got to know a lot of moms with young children who were just starting out as homeschoolers through the wonderful Catholic homeschool co-op we were a part of.  Now, I was there once too, and I certainly don’t mean to poke fun at all, but sometimes those of us with older children would just kind of look at each other while we listened to the young moms talk about all the activities their children were involved in and all the “extras” they were learning.  I think there is a tendency in our society to want to make sure our children don’t miss out on any opportunity, but sometimes I think the greatest opportunity we have as homeschoolers is time.

My advice?  Relax.  If your oldest child is under about 8 years old, keep in mind that you are running a marathon here, not a 50-yard sprint.  I think one of the reasons that so many people stop homeschooling after a year or two is because they are trying to sprint, and they get exhausted and burned out because they think they have to keep going at a pace that is simply not sustainable year after year.  Now, like everything, virtue is the happy medium.  I’m not suggesting you do none of those things–just that, like a runner, you pace yourself.  You decide which subjects are necessary every day, which would be a nice addition once a week, which devotions, activities, lessons, and sports can fit in with your life and not leave you feeling exhausted and always in a rush.

Here are a few thoughts on what’s important for the under 8 set:

1. Time to play.
2. Time to learn the responsibility of chores.
3. Time to learn to read.
4. Time to be read to (this shouldn’t stop at age 8, though).
5. Time to learn to write neatly (this is one I wish I had spent more time on).
6. Time to learn numbers and then adding and then subtracting.
7. Time to learn to share with siblings and friends.
8. Time to learn about God’s love for them.

So, when is it a good time to start some of these outside activities and more formal subjects?  You may not agree with what I think, but here is what I have found works well:

1. Formal sports:  Around age 7 or 8 at the earliest.
2. Dance lessons: About age 5 at the earliest just so they stay stretchy.  Otherwise about age 8.
3. Singing lessons:  High school at the earliest.
4. Formal science curricula:  About age 8 or 9 (by all means have fun with experiments and trips to the zoo before this).
5. Formal history curricula: About age 8.
6. Instrumental music lessons: When they are good readers–unless maybe it’s Suzuki violin and they actually enjoy it.
7. Choirs:  Anytime with good instruction that is age-appropriate.

What do you think?  Do you agree?  Disagree?  What do you wish you had done earlier?  What do you wish you hadn’t wasted your time on?

Another Side of Who I Am

I mentioned in my about page that one of the things I enjoy doing is spinning. I love working with soft merino wool and alpaca and silk. For the past couple years, in between homeschooling and my job, I have been selling handspun yarn, handwoven scarves, and most recently fiber art batts in my Etsy shop. I just changed the shop name to PurpleLamb. https://www.etsy.com/shop/purplelamb

What do you do for fun and/or money (or hopefully both) when you aren’t busy educationing your bunchkins? Feel free to post links to your online activities in the comments section!

Wish-It-Were-Spring Break

Based on the last couple posts, you might think all we do around here is take vacations.  It’s not true–really it’s not; yet, here I am blogging about vacations again.

Every February, the kids and I all get a little grumpy, and education seems to be far more of a chore than it does the rest of year.  I think it’s because winter has…just…gone…on…so…long.  So last year, I finally decided that sometime in February would be the first annual (doesn’t that term make you laugh?) wish-it-were-spring break. 

Last year, it was a complete break, and honestly, just knowing that a break is coming up in a few weeks does wonders to refresh one’s spirits.  In fact, I think that having something to look forward to is always a pretty huge motivator.  It really did help, and the weeks following it were easier even if spring still hadn’t come.

This year, we were falling a bit behind on literature, so I used my best marketing abilities and the relatively short memories of my children to announce that 3 weeks hence, we would have “literature week” where the only assignments would be the literature the kids were reading individually plus the literature I was reading to everyone aloud.  It worked, and the children were excited.  Fortunately no one remembered that last year at about the same time, they got the week off entirely.

Anyway, one of the many joys of homeschooling is that you get to set your own schedule.  If you have some kids in school and some you are homeschooling or (like us for many years) your spouse is a teacher, it makes sense to plan your scheduling according to the school’s for the most part, but if that isn’t the case, take advantage of the freedom of homeschooling to plan breaks when they are most needed.  For us, that need definitely comes in February!

When do you and your kids need a break most?

 

 

Doing Triage

Once in a while for some reason or another, homeschooling has to take a backseat to other parts of life. Now, this definitely shouldn’t happen often because, well, the children keep growing up faster than humanly possible whether you are teaching them or leaving them to their own devices. Nonetheless, some days, the laundry really is more important than spelling.

In my life, the issue is not so much laundry but my job. I work from home as a medical transcriptionist, and most of the time I am able to balance work and homeschooling fairly well. It isn’t easy, but it is possible. Every once in a while though, one of my clients catches up with a lot of work all at once–or several clients do–and I am swamped with work.

For others of you, it may be work or it might be laundry or it might be a sick baby or, best of all, it might be the perfect day to go fly the new kite on a breezy spring day. On days like that, in my family, we do what we call triage. The children bring me their homeschool lists, and I start crossing things off. I cross off the things that are not imperative, the subjects where missing a day now and then really isn’t going to change the world, the subjects where catching up later won’t be a big deal or won’t be necessary at all because the children can just pick up where they left off on another day without a problem.

What those subjects are vary by child. Older children should be able to do a lot more of their subjects independently. Younger children who are just learning to read may not be able to do much independently. There are 2 kinds of triage days: The ones where I am busy with other things, and the ones where we all have other things to do. On triage days when I am not very available, I cross off nonessential subjects that require me and leave the subjects that can be done independently or with the help of an older sibling. On triage days that involve kites or field trips or minor illness among the children, I cross off everything that wouldn’t cause one of the children to fall behind in a subject with deadlines.

This too depends on the child. Since I started planning the whole year at a time, I am loathe to cross off a chapter of history because if I do, I’ll have to rework the spreadsheet for the rest of the year, which is a time-consuming bother. For the child who is learning to read, daily reading practice is really important, so I avoid crossing that off. For my 2 teenagers who are taking a science class at the local community college, obviously I can’t triage their college homework. I can’t really go to the professor and tell him the kids couldn’t do their homework because we decided to go fly a kite, now can I?

On the other hand, skill subjects like handwriting, typing, computer skills of various sorts, and occasionally phonics or spelling are all ripe for the triage list depending on the day.

I don’t do this more often than I have to, but this is one area where homeschooling is different than school. School is a separate world from family life–one where you leave your kids for the day and go about the rest of your life until the end of the school day. Homeschooling means the kids are with you and a part of your larger life. Hopefully, homeschooling is very high on the list of priorities for that life, but flexibility is just one more life skill homeschoolers have the opportunity to learn, and the occasional “triage day” can certainly be part of that.

2012 in review

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2012 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

600 people reached the top of Mt. Everest in 2012. This blog got about 3,200 views in 2012. If every person who reached the top of Mt. Everest viewed this blog, it would have taken 5 years to get that many views.

Click here to see the complete report.

Life of Fred

I’m starting a new category called “Favorite Things,” and as I promised a post some time back about the Life of Fred math books, I’ll start there.

I kept hearing mention of this strangely titled set of math books by Dr. Stanley Schmidt on the fantastic, wisdom-filled Well-Trained Mind forum.  One poster there said she couldn’t image her child putting Life of Fred on an MIT college application, but I actually think if anyone at MIT ever heard of Life of Fred, he’d love it and laugh outloud with the rest of us.

Back to Fred.  I kept hearing mention of Fred, but I found it hard to take a math book called Life of Fred very seriously.  Yet we gave it a try, and it is an all-time favorite for two of my boys, and my next oldest daughter can’t wait until she is old enough for Fred too.  Why are my children so excited about a bunch of math books, you may ask?  It’s funny!  Really, really funny in a Far-side meets Monte Python sort of way.  I will say that the humor is sometimes dark in a way that wouldn’t appeal to some, but it never seems to be impure or violent.  A lot of it makes you say “poor Fred” as you laugh at his capers.

Poor little Fred is  a brilliant 5-year-old mathematician who teaches at a university, and along with the ongoing story of his life are problems where Fred (and the math student) solve problems that come up in his life using mathematics.  And this isn’t just 30-problems-of-the-same-type kind of math.  There are fewer problems than other math books we used, but each one is different and impossible to solve without understanding the concepts that were being taught in that chapter while continuing to use concepts from prior chapters.

The author, Dr. Stanley Schmidt, is a retired math professor who “invented” Fred while teaching university math.  I believe the calculus book was the first one he wrote.  What amazes me is that he is actually available to answer questions by email.  My oldest son has taken him up on this offer several times and has always received a prompt and courteous reply.  I would have to say that these books are single-handedly (if books had hands) responsible for the fact that this son wants to pursue a career in math.

The books now include a full series from kindergarten or first grade through calculus and beyond to statistics and linear algebra.  His website can be found at http://www.stanleyschmidt.com/FredGauss/index2.html.

At least one person in our family has used each of the following books:  Apples, Butterfies, Fractions, Decimals and Percentages, Prealgebra 1 with Biology, Prealgebra 2 with Economics, Beginning Algebra, Advanced Algebra, and Geometry.  Trigonometry is on order right now.

I have two downsides that I want to mention.  First of all, although my little guys liked Apples and Butterflies, I personally could not see using the elementary series alone without a more typical arithmetic curriculum.  They made a fun supplement, and I get why he created them, but we decided not to continue through the elementary series for the time being.

Before writing those, he said that a child was ready to start the Fractions book as soon as he had mastered adding, subtracting, multiplying, and dividing, and he makes it very clear that he thinks math should be studied with joy and not dread.  I don’t think that he really saw arithmetic books as necessary means to those ends, and I suspect that he wrote the elementary books to save a generation or two of children from dreading math through the use of long, rote arithmetic lessons.  I agree, and I think that for my children, the thought of 50 problems in Saxon would be dreadful indeed (not for some, I realize).  Still, I think there is a happy medium to be had there.  If I had to pick only Saxon or Life of Fred, though, for grammar-aged students, I would probably go for Fred.  Nonetheless, I would tend to recommend either Horizons or, better still, Math Mammoth for elementary arithmetic because they offer enough practice and very clear, step-by-step teaching.  As I mentioned above, we stopped using the elementary books after the first tw0 just because time was short.  We liked them, but I didn’t think they could stand alone.

The other downside is this:  Fred would not be a good fit for a young person who thinks very literally because sometimes Dr. Schmidt makes small leaps from point to point without really making the way clear.  This works well and may even be a good challenge for a some, but for a student who really needs math to be laid out in a very clear, stepwise fashion, this may not be the series to choose.  If you aren’t sure, you might try getting the book for your child’s level during the summer or as a supplement and see if it works for him or her.  My 2nd oldest son did the prealgebra books as his bedtime reading by his own choice, so if you think there’s no way you could get your child to do yet another mathematical task, you might be surprised!

Oh–one other great feature–the books are actually priced reasonably.  As I write this, they range between $16 for the elementary books and $39 for Calculus and Statistics.

If you are searching for a way to help develop students who are both highly capable in math and actually love it, Fred just might be the ticket.

What to Do When Your Family Thinks You’re Nuts for Homeschooling

In my last post, I mentioned that my mom recently sent me an article from The Wall Street Journal reviewing a book called Our Year of Learning Dangerously.  What I didn’t mention was what my mom wrote at the bottom corner of the article–”You should write a book.”  I don’t know if I really could or not, but it sure was nice of my mom to suggest. 

You see, when we started this homeschooling adventure 12 years ago (or 17 years ago given that we planned to do it from the time our eldest daughter was a baby), our parents thought we were nuts.  They never said it outloud to us, and for that I am grateful, but nonetheless it’s true.  Now, I don’t know if we have the full support of 100% of our respective families, but I can say this at least.  After keeping up with the news and keeping up with her grandkids, my mom is now our biggest supporter.

So if your parents or other relatives think you’re nuts for homeschooling your kids, that’s okay.  They probably already think you’re nuts for trying to live your faith or trying to eat nourishing foods or wanting a farm or whatever else may be true about you.  Give them a few years to get used to the idea without making a big deal out of it.  And give them a chance to watch your kids grow up without using the word “like” 3 times in every sentence or idolizing Hannah Montana (or is that out of date already?).  Give them a chance to see children who have interests related to who God made them to be, not just the latest craze of their peers.  Give them a chance to get to know your children who, more than likely, actually enjoy reading good books.  Give them a chance to to know your children who actually want to do what is virtuous because it is pleasing to God.

They’ll come around.